When love and hate literally collide

Even in the midst of loving, cuddling whether in an early morning or middle of the day and even exchanging sweet thoughts, couples encounter issues especially when likes and dislikes are laid down. It could extremely be draining when no one’s going to give up. Like is it going to be how pride works versus love?


Well, men are known to be superior and eliminates emotions most of the time as this would shield them from showing their weaknesses… but not all the time. When a man truly loves a woman, he accepts for what and who she is, same with a woman. However, because of how society works, men forbids to see the feelings behind every woman disagreements in certain things. And because some women are stronger than her yesterdays pain, she boldly shout, scream and strongly stands her point.


It isn’t sad. For these are all normal in the lives of couples. Without showing who you are and what your imperfections as a partner or even as a person, one’s partner will never see the beauty of his or her one true love. So just be yourself and always be kind and understanding. Understanding in the sense that you listen, and feel the importance of each words being uttered. Remember that you were not present during his life before, so you might still discover where those opinions are coming from. So it is a must to be a partner and a friend at the same time.


Thanks @ianorbs photography for the photos :



Fashion hotpicks

top Filipina bloggers

Fashion trends has always been a way to share your insight about who you truly are. I strongly believe that even Kylie Jenner, at her very young age though controversial on the way she brings herself to the public, but it makes her comfortable to wear what she wants. She even mentioned that she prefers to shop on the men’s section because she can pull something out from those apparels. Considering that Im a single mom, still,  I always look forward on what to wear and what is not… We all know that not all dresses fits the plus sizes to thin ladies or vice versa.

I got two of my most favorite Philippine fashion blog site, and I believe, I am not the only one whose admiring them but millions out there. I am so proud of there influence to all young women, empowering and boosting self-confidence to be beautiful in their own fashion sense. The sisters Vern and Verniece are very lovely and with their book VV, they talk more about being sisters and being there all the time, even if they go out to travel, they look and wear almost exactly the same to the extent that they look twins. That is why they are famous of “twinning”, as what they say. If you want to see more about there “twinning”, you can also visit there website 

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Another hot fashion icon of today’s generation, is a sister of Philippines top stylist Liz Uy. She is considered to be  Philippines top fashion blogger, with all her multimedia ads over Youtube and televison. Every time she speaks and shows herself on the crowd, she always has that swag. I like her fashion taste, because she is into something that I think, may be comfortable and might suit me… apparels with less details. One more thing to add, is her swim suits that are totally something new to the eye, and coming from my friends opinion, it always caused women to look for the brand she wore. Try visiting her  website  to get the latest look of the new Filipina trend these days.




Chasing liberty to chasing stability

samsafeIts been 2 years since I’ve decided to stand in my own feet. Let go of fears and set out my feelings free. Still I fumble and fall, run into the wall and when it comes to you… (Oh the harsh songs…) Welcome to my page!!! Yes, 2 years when I decided to do something real big for myself which made me a better me. I know its one of the most difficult time in my life but its the biggest chapter that created color. I never knew that I became an accomplished mom, knowing how dependent I am before.

My life is not the typical story everyone has. To my friends and loved ones whom I owe so much of it, I valued every single thing you’ve made for me. Now that I am moving to  another chapter of my life, hoping that everything will be another chance, another opportunity not just for me but for my son’s future. It will always be a great change in us that will help us evolve to a better one.